No, everyone changes as the years march on. We gain weight, we lose weight, we get wrinkles, we go gray. Well not as long as there is hair color. haha
Character is much more important to me than physical looks. My ex husband was an ass to me when I gained 40 lbs, having my daughter years ago.
I retained good character in the marriage, he did not.
Now he is fat, bald and looks like Captain Kangaroo and I morphed into the best shape of my life in my 40’s. haha
Karmas a bitch and now his new wife has packed on like 60 lbs. since they met 6 years ago. Life, ya gotta love the twists and turns. lol