We’re in the season of holiday parties, and since I work for an organization that represents members of our more than 3000 employee employer, I meet a lot of people at the parties and there’s lots of conversation-making to be done. Most will ask me about work issues that affect us all, like our contract. Sometimes I’ll ask them where they live, and they reciprocate. That leads to more conversation. I met someone last night who lives not far from me, so that became about our kids, the school system, the area, etc.
If it’s not someone from work, I may ask what they do for a living. That will start off some interesting conversation about their job, my job, the economy, etc.
People say I’m good at making small talk. It’s also known as being a good bullshitter.