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How would all of your past/present partners get along?

Asked by fluthernutter (6328points) January 28th, 2015
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Let’s take out the common denominator (you). How would they all get along? Best friends? At each other’s throats? Somewhere in the middle?

Is there a common denominator among all of them for you? Is there a singular trait among them that made you attracted to them in the first place? (Regardless of whether or not it worked out.)

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JLeslie's avatar

My husband gets along with them fine at a party or dinner once in a while, but he wouldn’t be close friends with any of them I don’t think.

DrasticDreamer's avatar

First of all, I think this is a really neat question, so GA!

I think that, for the most part, they’d all dislike each other very much. Which might be indicative that I was trying to figure out what, exactly, I wanted along the way. I think there are a couple who would get along, and would probably even like each other mostly – and they’re both what I consider to be the most normal, mature relationships I’ve ever had.

I appreciate this question. It’s making me think about my life/relationships in a way I never have and I find it rather enlightening. I wish I could give you more than one GA. :)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

It would be claw fest 2015. I still get along with all of them, but good god they don’t like each other at all, even though they don’t really know each other. I’m not sure where it comes from.

josie's avatar

Quite a few of my past girlfriends, plus my ex wife, were compromised by jealousy.

Thus, they would not not get along.

My current GF is not that way in the slightest.

It is pretty refreshing, and nice to know that she could meet the other women and not give a shit one way or the other. Makes my life a lot easier and less tense.

janbb's avatar

I was just thinking that a few of the recents share common traits with my Ex – generally quiet, thoughtful, intelligent men who are not real macho men. They all have had their own quirks but would find hings to talk about, I think.

zenvelo's avatar

My best exes would get along, in fact they are Facebook friends! But my one ex-wife can’t even get along with herself, let alone anyone else.

Cruiser's avatar

Somewhere in the middle. The common ground they would share is love for outdoors, music, art, fitness, men and aversion to cooking.

Winter_Pariah's avatar

I think a small handful might get along but otherwise, I can’t see them really standing each other’s presence… only thing that could possibly get them to get along for even a little bit is giving them the opportunity to get back at me… but still, nigh half right there would scoff at the notion as ultimately being petty and below them and at least 3 wouldn’t even bother even entertaining that notion.

My current GF would only join the ones who want to get back at me if the plan involved leaving me tied up. :D

jonsblond's avatar

A popular west coast college baseball coach, a Leatherneck/biker and a recovering alcoholic who just found God walk into a bar.

This should be interesting. :D

Mariah's avatar

The three people I have dated are all extremely different from each other. I think my current guy and my first guy might enjoy each other a little but not become close. I don’t think any of them would like my second guy and vice versa.

This of course could never happen because if my second guy were left alone with my current guy I might end up “widowed.”

Coloma's avatar

This is way too exhausting of a question. haha
Suffice it to say that my stable of exes are all so diverse that while they might get along on a super casual basis were talkin’ many diverse horses in my remuda.

Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

Their egos would get in the way. My husband and one of my exes were once friends (although not close friends), long before my husband and I were a couple, but they do not get along now.

anniereborn's avatar

Hmmm that is a very good question, and one I wish I could see played out honestly.
(though that will never happen) They honestly have a lot in common with each other, whether some would want to admit it or not. They are all very intelligent, quite witty, good looking, respectful and affectionate.

Unbroken's avatar

Haha! With @Coloma on that one… Way too diverse and way too exhausting to think about. Though some of mine are far too easily threatened to get along with any one else in that type of circumstance.

When given a menagerie why revisit the same old horse over and over.

Stinley's avatar

Yes, I think on the whole they would get along if they knew each other independently of me. They were mostly slightly geeky, sciencey, friendly and quite sociable types. Apart from one. Don’t know what I was thinking when I went out with him. And the one that’s dead obviously…

keobooks's avatar

I don’t think they’d be super pals, but they would probably get along. There is one guy that everyone else would get annoyed with because he was a pretentious pseudointellectual, but most people who know him get that vibe. Two guys I dated would really like my husband and they would get along. I’d actually like to get together with one old flame of mine because I think the four of us (including his wife) would have a blast together. I’ve seen her FB page, and I know I’d love his wife. We’d all play board games and watch zombie movies all night.

ucme's avatar

They’d get along just fine, sharing common ground in that they love gorgeous men who are packing a massive cock :D

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