Today, I found out one of my old crushes really had a thing for me and talks to his best friend about me a lot. This guy is a guy I was never really sure if he actually liked me for me, or liked messing with my head. He’d act like he was joking about being attracted to me. Strangely, by doing this, he screwed himself over because I’m now in a committed relationship of almost 2 and a ½ years.

It came up because I noticed he deactivated his FB and wanted to say hi, so I asked his best friend what happened to him. Then somehow that turned into “He really needs a girlfriend, too bad you’re taken…” and other stuff. So when I told him I was never really sure if the guy really liked me, he confided the rest.