@Pied_Pfeffer Based on your limited personal experience. Got it.
I’ve never been a part of a gender reveal party, but the ones I’m seeing online do include the dad, so I guess your prediction doesn’t always hold. And I don’t see why a gay couple having a baby would inherently be against such a party just because they’re gay. I suppose you do need to spell that out for me.
Methinks people are being a bit judgmental and uptight about this. Seriously, who cares if the excited couple wants to share this moment with friends and family? No one is forcing anyone to throw one, or even attend one. It seems odd that people are so against it with no good reason.
Like I said, I wouldn’t do it. I don’t even want a baby shower. My bridal shower was enough to make me never want to have a party like that again. However, I see no harm in people (who have decent people in their lives that aren’t selfish assholes, unlike me) doing it.