@Apparently_Im_The_Grumpy_One I’m with you until you bring up the “good Christian home” thing. Christianity isn’t a magic solution to this problem. If you look back at history there have been exactly the types of conflicts described in the OP between different “good Christian” groups like Catholics vs. Protestants in Europe. The history of the US is filled with various Christian denominations that fled their homelands to America to escape religious persecution from other Christian sects.
Also, there are some questionable morals/values in the Bible, like Slavery:
“When a man sells his daughter as a slave, she will not be freed at the end of six years as the men are. If she does not please the man who bought her, he may allow her to be bought back again. But he is not allowed to sell her to foreigners, since he is the one who broke the contract with her. And if the slave girl’s owner arranges for her to marry his son, he may no longer treat her as a slave girl, but he must treat her as his daughter. If he himself marries her and then takes another wife, he may not reduce her food or clothing or fail to sleep with her as his wife. If he fails in any of these three ways, she may leave as a free woman without making any payment.” (Exodus 21:7–11 NLT)
and rape:
“If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he must marry the young woman because he violated her, and he will never be allowed to divorce her.” (Deuteronomy 22:28–29 NLT)
There’s a lot of good stuff in the Bible, but there’s some pretty horrible stuff too. It’s overly simplistic to just say the Bible solves these types of problems by giving everyone good values.