Looking over the tenets of this question it got me to me to thinking, reform is needed. To make it fairer and even and not seeped in hypocrisy as it is now, if the man is forced to be a father and has to pay to support the child he did not want, all morality aside, he should have the right to request from the courts an audit to have some accountability how his support money is being spent. Who is overseeing that now? IIs she buying golf clubs for her new boyfriend with the money, weekly trips to the nail salon and hairdresser, shoe shopping junkets, etc.? The law is saying she don’t have to be a mom of she don’t want, but you must be a dad if you don’t want to be, and pay through the nose and we don’t care if she really spends the money on the kid or not. If guys had the option of calling an audit do you think more would step up and pay knowing there was some vehicle for accountability?

Topics: money, fairness, transparency, hypocrisy, accountability, child support