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How young is too young?

Asked by TooOldForYou (13points) June 11th, 2015
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Hi, I’ve been divorced for almost a year. I was married for 18 years and I am in my mid forties.

I have started on line dating. I’m really not looking for dates or to fall in love. I just want sex. I stated that in my profile.

I was contacted by a 24 year old young man. He is very insistent and flattering and beautiful. He wants the experience.

Am I doing something wrong if I see him? He’s an adult and charming and seems to really like me.

I’m attracted but should I be?

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Blackberry's avatar

It’s time for you to do what you want. You have to live a little. I slept with a few older women in my mid-20s with no problems at all. It was fun for us both.

Try to forget about social barriers, because there’s a whole bunch of stuff we “shouldn’t be doing”. At one point it would have been unacceptable for you to get divorced.

ibstubro's avatar

Have you been aboveboard in all your posts and current pictures?

If so, then no, you’re not doing something wrong if you see him, which is your real question.

You need safeguards.
Neutral, public meeting place.
No communication outside the dating site.
Walk-away clause. When you meet and shake hands, either can turn and walk away.

Good luck!

stanleybmanly's avatar

The guy will be lucky (and grateful) for the experience.

Pachy's avatar

I say go for it. Life is short.

rockfan's avatar

If it’s mutual, and both know exactly what you want to get out of the relationship, then I don’t see anything wrong with it.

Here2_4's avatar

Don’t forget the all important stop at the pharmacy. Safety first. After that, so long as you don’t break any laws…. I think relationship stigmas are fading into the past.

Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

If you’ve been honest and he still wants to meet, go for it. Just make sure you meet in a public place to start with and practice safe sex. Just be careful until you’re sure he’s okay.

Other than that, you’re two adults doing whatever adults feel like doing.

marinelife's avatar

Why not?

elbanditoroso's avatar

I agree with all the people above – go for it.

But – there are all sorts of statistics about success rates of long term relationships, and correlation between age differential and longevity of relationships. So if you are expecting this to become your companion relationship for the next 40 years, you need to be aware the odds are against success.

If you’re looking to date, screw, and have fun with no long term in mind, then full speed ahead.

ucme's avatar

So long as his cock fits in, then you should be good to go.

gorillapaws's avatar

Use a condom. 24 is fine. He may not look like his picture. Meet somewhere safe and neutral like a coffee shop or something.

Darth_Algar's avatar

As far as I’m concerned it wouldn’t matter if you were double your age. You’re both consenting adults, fuck your brains out then fuck some more.

@elbanditoroso “But – there are all sorts of statistics about success rates of long term relationships, and correlation between age differential and longevity of relationships. So if you are expecting this to become your companion relationship for the next 40 years, you need to be aware the odds are against success.”

I believe the TC was pretty unambiguous about having no interest in a relationship.

anniereborn's avatar

To all you “safe sex” people. This woman is in the same age group as me. AIDS began garnering attention as we were in our sexually formative years. If the OP doesn’t know about condoms, she’s been living under a rock for 30 years.
And yes…..GO FOR IT!!!

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