I only went to one wedding where I objected to the choice of food. They offered us water, dinner mints and wedding cake. Nothing else. It wouldn’t have been so awful, but the ceremony was at 11, the reception was at noon and after the ceremony the couple took this long slow carriage ride around the city and had lots of pictures taken before they came to the reception. Nobody felt that it was polite to leave the reception without at least one cheer for the happy couple. So everyone just sat around, scarfing handfuls of mints and chugging water, getting grouchier and hungrier are time passed.
That was miserable.
Otherwise, my attitude on food at weddings is, it’s free for me and there’s usually all I can eat. Win win win all around.