I know it wasn’t good grammar but my sweet s/o is in the hospital in grave condition. He has been very sick for many years. Problem: one of my daughters, just the one, is an alcoholic, a long time taker of drugs and worse and her son the same. They are quite fond of my s/o but are totally broke and live out of state. They’d have to take a bus. If they came to my home after the funeral all Hell would break loose because they can’t stand each other, he’s a jr high dropout with outstanding warrants at seventeen and she has no car. I’d never get them out of my house. I really am stumped by this, wanting to do the right thing but fifteen minutes with her is so horrible with her alcohol and ADHD and his thieving and lying that I’d have a nervous breakdown. What should I do? Please forgive me. I don’t wish to be insensitive. My s/o is her stepdad.