Fluther: Why does this girl always look at my mouth?

Why does this girl always look at my mouth?

Asked by mattyhewson (25

) March 16th, 2016
22 responses
“Great Question” (2

)

Follow this question

Send to a friend!

Topics: relationships, girls, behavior, dating, advice, attraction

Observing members: 0

Composing members: 0

Answers

(Sigh).

It’s possibly attractive.

Experienced people know to use this as a silent cue about attraction.

SecondHandStoke (9522

)“Great Answer” (1

)

Maybe she’s trying to get the confidence to kiss it.

RedDeerGuy1 (24461

)“Great Answer” (1

)

Lucky you..)

imrainmaker (8380

)“Great Answer” (1

)

It’s hard for some people to look directly into other people!s eyes.

Pachy (18610

)“Great Answer” (5

)

Maybe she just likes your lips ;)

NerdyKeith (5489

)“Great Answer” (1

)

Maybe you have food stuck in your teeth

Judi (40025

)“Great Answer” (6

)

Majoring in dental hygiene?

ucme (50047

)“Great Answer” (2

)

Even though I can hear very well, I tend to read people’s lips. I’m a visual learner, and I like to converse in concrete ways. She might simply have the same tendency.

Love_my_doggie (12965

)“Great Answer” (4

)

Spinach – or something similar. That’s my guess.

Earthbound_Misfit (13177

)“Great Answer” (1

)

Because if she didn’t you’d be asking why she looks you in the eyes all the time.

Seek (34805

)“Great Answer” (6

)

I’d look at your mouth too. My hearing isn’t what it used to be. I confuse sound like “th” and “sh” so I watch you speak to increase my understanding. Simple. No hidden meaning .
How is her hearing?

LuckyGuy (43689

)“Great Answer” (8

)

Welcome to Fluther.

She’s probably figured out that you aren’t a Gift Horse, so it’s safe to look there.

Seriously, though, a lot of people find eye contact too much to bear, and looking away from a person’s face while talking to him can seem rude. So in general it is ‘safe’ to look there. Maybe if you tried smiling more, she’d look at your eyes to see if it’s a real smile or not. (Because that’s where the truth of a smile lies, after all.)

CWOTUS (26102

)“Great Answer” (4

)

It is so gross that she simply cannot stop looking, even though she is repulsed by it.
Some people are simply that way.
The same reason that some people love seeing Olympic skaters fall down. You hate it, but you love it too.

josie (30934

)“Great Answer” (1

)

Maybe she wants to shove her tongue down your throat.

jca (36062

)“Great Answer” (3

)

I look everywhere but peoples’ eyes when I speak. I know it’s horribly rude but I’ve always had a hard time with eye contact. That could possibly be it. Or, y’know, like others have said, they could wanna just kiss that mouth and can’t help but watch it move, wising it was moving against their own.

Tea_Gryphon (517

)“Great Answer” (3

)