My girlfriend compliments me on all of the above (hands, arms, eyes, demeanor). I do not think I am all THAT attractive but maybe a bot above average (that’s my picture—my icon, that is) however, I do NOT think I am the physical appearance she likes—she likes guys with darker hair and a little more rugged or manly)— however, my eyes (“what’s in them”) and hands (strong hands, if she gives the guy a chance to rub her neck or give her a massage)—and yes, for some reason, arms and legs—are a turn-on).
Guys, if a girl can tell that you will TREAT HER or any girl RIGHT, (they can tell usually)—that’s a turn-on to be taken into consideration but may not in itself win her over just yet.
I had a heckuva time getting my girlfriend to be attracted to me. And she really didn’t turn out to be everything I wanted or imagined or hoped for. But once she became attracted to me, the relationship became very passionate—something I never expected from such a shy and reticent woman.
Also, some say a nice but subtle cologne helps—maybe something with pheremones. I do not know but this really worked for me. I no longer need it but I would swear that it helped get me out of the restricted “friend zone”/