No! I divorced my ex because ( amongst other things of course ) we had polar opposite personality types that didn’t mesh well after the initial flurry of hormones and blind romantic love. He was very cautious, methodical and rigid in his ways and I am more the free spirited type. I was driven to near insanity by his OCD need for routine and structure and having things his way. He once spent about 20 minutes coaching me like some over zealous boy scout leader, on how to build the perfect fire with 3 sticks of kindling and a half sheet of newspaper.
I almost hit him in the head with the fireplace poker. lol
If I want to use 6 sticks of kindling and 3 sheets of newspaper back the fuck off and leave me alone! haha
I am very non-controlling and a thower awayer, I keep no old bills, bank statements ( everything is online anyway right? ) receipts, etc. and only my taxes and a few important documents. I am just not the type to keep 5 years of electric bills to chart the rate changes, who cares? haha
Uh uh…all of my exes incompatible qualities were what caused me to leave them, not absorb traits that went against my nature.