If you are at a point where an affair is ‘necessary,’ you don’t deserve your spouse, or you should already be separated.
Cheating while in a relationship is one of the lowest things someone can do.
Trust is the framework of any relationship. Without it, there is only a lie.
Cheaters are cowards. Many do it in hopes of getting caught, or out or spite.
If I went out of state to visit a past lover, I should just stay out of state. Telling them about it 4 years later only pours salt in the wound, and adds insult to injury.
I think cheating is like a form of rape.
Cheat away… But you are the worst type of pathetic scum.
Have the sand to leave the person who cares about you,or at least converse about your issues before you step out.
Hopefully cheaters these days get STDs. Or worse.
Those of you who would keep this secret are SACKS OF PATHETIC SHIT, who don’t deserve their SO, or any partner at all.
If you think otherwise, you really are pathetic. Break up, or kill yourself. You’re wasting my oxygen, and that of other decent human beings, of which there are few.