I’ll try to keep this as concise as possible just because the whole story is long, too detailed, and I’d just rather not say.

Basically, after weeks of her having strange behavior, my dad saw my moms phone and found out she was cheating on him. They got into an argument, she stole some of my dads super important personal things and left the house. She left her phone, hasn’t been on Facebook, and has basically ex communicated herself. I wouldn’t try to get involved in this, but I’m incredibly concerned because no one has heard from her. She didn’t think to call me, my sister, or her own parents so at least someone knew where she was. Her friends don’t know where she is either and we can’t legally file a police report until she has been missing for a week.

My dad is so done with the situation and trying to stay strong but I can tell he is devastated. He says she’s obviously with the other guy and where she wants to be and is probably safe. This is just so random and confusing.

My sister is away at school and my fiancé and I have our own house so we are kinda adulting at this point and my parents have been empty nesters. I’m angry and have lost so much respect for her. But more than anything I’m hurt and afraid because she didn’t think to even have a way to contact us. What if something happened to my grandparents (her parents) and one of them was in the hospital? We would have no way to tell her. Plus I just found out she’s been constantly getting drunk and I’m just freaking out at how irresponsible she has turned. I’m in a flurry of different emotions and am not sure how to handle them right now. My sister doesn’t know because she’s away and I don’t know if I should even tell her what’s happening…....

Sorry for the jumble of feelings, I needed to get it out

Topics: relationships, parents, family, cheating, divorce