I didn’t really answer about myself. I’m 48, and although I’m still brunette from a not too far distance, the greys are creeping in more and more. I dye my hair, but can get away with quite a bit of grow out, so it isn’t very demanding or tedious if I keep the color close to my own. I can’t imagine letting my hair go grey before age 60. It would age me for sure, and my husband still has black, wavy, thick hair. Just two days ago we were sitting on a bench and a woman next to me said, “look how gorgeous his hair is.” My grandmother used to reach out and touch his hair. It’s not only because of him, it’s partly my own vanity even without him, and how I believe I will be perceived. Plus, in my opinion having young hair means I can be lazier about how I dress and if I wear make-up.
@Seek In my early-mid 30’s I stopped changing my hair color thinking that I would take advantage of not having greys yet.