@Inspired_2write your accusation is completely justified, if this is the first, or at least one of the first questions, the OP asks about why he is in his current state and how he can improve himself.
But sadly, this isn’t the first question, not even close. It has got to the point when everyone is able to predict what he is going to ask and what he means by his question.
We may not be able to know what was or not done to help, but we can pick up patterns. If someone continues to ask the same kind of questions again and again and doesn’t seem to consider any of the advice we give them, then how can it not be a red flag?
And when you mess up, and we say that you mess up after considering all the details we have, is this unkind?
The only thing @RedDeerGuy1 can do now is accept that he was responsible for his current state, reread all of his questions again, with this account and the previous account, then decide which advice to take. More questions will only spawm the same kind of responses that are called “negative assumption” you see now.
I appreciate that he has made some progress since he changed to this account like getting out more and refraining his panic attack, but if he wants to be a normal functional person he has to do more than that.