@nickells – “my fluther” is a feature on your page where you can add other members of fluther to your list of people to “follow”. to add someone to your fluther, simply go on their profile page and click on “add to my fluther” under their name.
Hilarious about the Narcissism article. A high school friend of mine, Dr. Andrew Morrison, is cited there. He is a psychiatrist and wrote a book about shame and narcissism. I simply remember him as Andy.