On another thread, can’t even remember what it was about, but something stood out (imagine that) about guys do not like to be pursued or wanting to do the pursuing. I guess that might have been the norm before the 60s, but I met guys (usually those who one would call pretty boys whom women pursue on QP) who prefer the women come seeking them and vying their attention, then they are in the driver’s seat, so-to-speak, they can accept or reject who comes and they have nothing to do but wait until the women show up. Some are not pretty boys or hunks but rather homely guys who would rather a woman show interest before they do and thus be flamed by her as a Sopwith Camel would by a Pfalz D.III over the fields of Arras in WWI. I have met women who even though they liked a guy they felt he should make the 1st move if he was really that interested. What say you; women want to do the pursuing more, the men more than the women, or these days about equal for both?

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