The big choices looming are:
Whether to address some medical things. Some are real problems and some are things I should just get checked like everyone should.
What house to build or buy. I’m in a limbo. We bought a “small” house for now and hope to turn it into an investment property or maybe my husband’s parents will live in it eventually. Part of me wants to build on a big piece of land (10+ acres) not in a community. We currently own a big lot (almost 4 acres) in a community that we are supposed to build on.
My husband and I are trying to decide whether to have garages on our property where our home will be, where he would run his business. The negative is employees who don’t make much money will see our “fancy” big house. A house we could never build based on the business we own, it’s money from our previous life working in corporate.
Eventually, we need to decide whether we like owning this business or not. We also need to make some changes for now, like the sec’y we have now we have some problems with, and need to probably eventually hire someone else. No matter what I think we will at minimum change her job to part time.
I’ve been deciding to do more on my own. My husband and I have always done our own thing to large extent, while also doing many things together, but I’m at a point where I feel more of a need to pursue my own interests. One big thing for me is some travel.
I have serous dread about having to deal with finding and deciding on health insurance when my cobra runs out.
I make bad decisions every day about what I eat. I have to get this under control.
In a few months my car lease runs out and I’ll have to decide what car to lease or buy. I hate that process.
More and more I have to decide to not insert my opinion about a variety of things with my husband. I’m shocked at how this has evolved over time.