I am really confused about how many people are involved and who did and said what:
Sentence One: You wear Green T-shirt
Sentence Two: (Another?) individual places an orange circle patch on your Green T-shirt.
Sentence Three: This other person says your shirt is better because of the orange circle YOU put on it, even though the (OTHER?) person put it on it?
If you mean that this other person changes something about your stuff and then says that’s better (without saying you did it), then I would say that is someone who has severe boundary issues. For whatever reason (probably mental health issues), they feel the need to dominate other people (perhaps because they fear being dominated themselves, and can’t think outdside that imaginary “contest”) and so they violate other people’s space and property and even clothing, modify it without permission, and then say it is an improvement.
Of course, it can vary widely depending on circumstances and relationship. This is very common behavior for mothers to do to their children, and when children are young and/or welcome the behavior, it may not be a problem. Or in the military, when domination and boundary destruction by superiors is part of the training and discipline/command strategy. Outside a situation where improvement and comment by others is actually freely welcomed (such as with many parent-child relations and some friends, and possibly some professional situations), this is probably some sort of attempt to dominate – it’s about how the receiving person feels about it and whether they are allowed to refuse the “help”.