I’m not sure if this is what you mean, but I consider myself to be fairly high maintenance, I’m extremely neurotic/anxious, sensitive, a perfectionist, I like plans and don’t do well with spontaneity, I need to have time for my routine and I like to know what is happening ahead of time. I have very low self esteem, so I am not a wash and go sort of person, I need to do my hair and makeup and be presentable before I feel comfortable going out to do things (including mundane stuff like grocery shopping or going to lunch.) For what it’s worth, I’m pretty sure that I have some good qualities to balance out this part of my personality. ;)
I am patient with other people who have similar needs, but slightly less patient with those who seem to have no care in the world for time or how their behavior and actions might inconvenience others. That seems to be more common in my lower maintenance friends/family. They are generally happier and more carefree, but they seem most likely to be unreliable or always late, etc. That gets on my nerves.