I agree with @zenvelo What one person might call apathy another, like me, would call it healthy detatchment. You can’t save the world, fix all the pain and suffering in it, or change or control anyone, so why waste your emotional energy on such futile pursuits.
There is a saying “don’t should on yourself, or others.”
Also, different personality types have different cognitive functions and thinking types are just not going to be a emotional or empathetic as feeling types.
Thinkers solve problems and make evaluations based on logic and rational thought and feeling types make decisions and evaluations based on emotion. It can also be a “been there, done that” scenario as well. I am going through that right now with a friend who is going through a breakup with a man she has dated for some years. I am trying to show care and lend support but the truth is, I could care less about peoples relationship dramas these days as a mature woman.
Seriously, it takes everything I have to listen to romantic relational drama. Gah…so-hard-for-me. haha