I think there are many reasons that women might desire sex less than men, and also many reasons that it is socially considered to be a “female issue” rather than a male issue. But, as a woman who is generally the high libido partner in my relationships, I will say it’s not easy to be on that end, either. Especially with the social assumptions around both, it can be really hard not to think something is wrong with you if, as a woman, your partners are less interested in sex than you are.
But, having said that, I also know that as a woman with a high sex drive, some things have caused it to crash and burn in the past, and it’s kind of amazing how it can turn off like a switch and be off. Medications, sometimes depression, hormonal shifts, stress, pain… when it’s not there, it’s really not there.