Certainly, there are things in my life I would prefer had been different. I have made decisions I now think were not the best choices. My circumstances at different times have held me back from reaching my potential. However, I wouldn’t change anything. Sure, I have ‘what ifs’, but if things changed, I would also miss out on things that are truly fabulous about my life.
Had I not married my first husband, I would not have the children I have now. And I love and adore my children.
Had I had more opportunities in my youth, I would have had a different career, but then I might never have emigrated to Australia and I wouldn’t have met the man I am now married to.
Had I completed a degree when I was younger, I doubt I would have continued to study and i wouldn’t have the career I have now.
Every change in my life would have a consequence. One small detour from the path I have taken would lead me in a different direction to opportunities I took and now treasure.
So I think we all have ‘what ifs’, but I wouldn’t actually change a thing in my life.