I feel trapped right now, but I am not sure if I would describe it as a “station”. Over the past twenty years I have taken on an identity that heavily involves every facet of my life and my family’s. I am a minister, but facing some serious inner conflict right now because I am thinking of stepping down and pursuing a secular career. If I choose to do this, it may turn my church, family, and friends upside-down. No doubt, there would be disappointment, discouragement, and probably anger. I have been weighing the pro’s and con’s over and over for the past two years, but haven’t made up my mind yet.