My grand daughter, who is 5, had the longest, tangley, hot hair. I always cringed, especially in the hot summer time. So many times I just wanted to chop it off! But I would never do such a thing without checking with the parents first. My son was fine with it, but Mom said “No!”
Just about 4 weeks ago my son showed up with the 5 year old….and her hair was short! Her mom had finally said, “OK, fine,” so Chris took her to the beautician first thing. My granddaughter loves it!

I have another granddaughter, who is 4, and her other grand mother took in upon herself to cut her hair with out asking my daughter first. My daughter was livid.

Should the parents be asked first? Why?