Dear sweet_one, Welcome to the cllective. I suggest you review the Fluther guidelines, specifically this section:
“Asking Great Questions
Here are some tips to help you get the best responses and earn the respect of the collective:
* Be Specific
“Who likes Saabs?” isn’t nearly as productive as “Why will my 1994 Saab only start when it’s out of gear?”
* Be Genuine
We understand that some people want to ask a question just to see how Fluther works. However, having hundreds of questions like “What’s 1+1?” brings down the quality of the site. Please ask questions that you really want people to answer. ”
Fluther on.