Fluther: Would she cancel last minute or right away?

Would she cancel last minute or right away?

Asked by Theasiandude (15

) September 7th, 2017
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If my ex was creeped out that I stalked her and her friends on social media, would she cancel our hangout right away or last minute?

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Depends on how she plans to react. She might not cancel at all, and just wait until you are in a public place to confront you. Maybe meet you someplace where all her friends are and they call you out as an asshole loud and clear.

Don’t be a creep. Only shit people do stalker things.

zenvelo (39431

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She is the only one that knows what she will or will not do. Guess you just get to wait and see, you’ve been stripped of your power, she’s in the drivers seat now and yeah, what @zenvelo said, only shit people do stalker things.

Coloma (47193

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Who knows? Probably right away, but we don’t know much about her or her personality. My guess is the longer she knows without saying anything, the more likely she is to consider it not a big deal. If she really goes the way @zenvelo suggests, you can at least take solace in the fact that she’s petty and mean and not worthy of these levels of obsession.

Smashley (12406

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@Smashley ignoring or ditching someone that has stalked you is not petty or mean, it;s the healthy and smart thing to do. Girls and women are abused and murdered by stalkers every day. Any stalking behavior is a major warning whether the person is dangerous or not.

Coloma (47193

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right away if she’s smart.

stanleybmanly (24153

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Oy @Coloma. Read more carefully. I said that if she invites him out, brings in her friends, and publically shames him for accessing information that he was either specifically given access to, or was made public, THEN she is petty and mean.

Smashley (12406

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@Smashley Sorry, missed that, kick in the ass duly noted. haha

Coloma (47193

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I’m not saying I did it on purpose, but I was scrolling through my new friends list to see if I could add anybody new on Facebook. i was just asking in case I did add them, would she reject me?

Theasiandude (15

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Well, I’ll just reiterate what I said on your last question. If she rejects you, it’s probably not because of social media weirdness in the levels you describe.

Smashley (12406

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Quit stalking her!!! Just stop, man.

Dutchess_III (46827

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I don’t know about this specific instance, but some people call it stalking when they are referring to some totally innocent stuff. It is sort of like a twisted pet name for showing an interest.

In regards to how the lady will react, don’t you think whatever happens, you had it coming?

Patty_Melt (17513

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He calls it stalking. The OP himself does.

Dutchess_III (46827

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Yessss, that’s what I said.

Patty_Melt (17513

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