I don’t remember anything. I was the oldest. My sister might have a different perspective, but I doubt it. The only thing I can think of that she might say is she would get upset that I wasn’t with her when I was playing with my friends or starting dating my boyfriend in high school. More of a younger sister jealousy thing.
I once asked my mom if my sister and I used to fight, and also if we were good at sharing. I was wondering if I didn’t have a clear memory. In fact, I think it was a fluther Q that had me questioning it. My mom said we didn’t, and that when my younger sister wanted something I would give it to her and say, “ok, here, mommy doesn’t like noise.” Lol. Not that we were expected to be silent, but if she started whining or similar I just gave her whatever it was I guess.
Come to think of it, with the items we have inherited, my sister and I share a lot of it back and forth. Two weeks ago I was in NY, and she gave me two rings she said she never wears of my grandmother’s. I didn’t ask, she just asked if I wanted them. I said I’d take them and see if I wear them. One I wear all the time now. I have something she wants, but it’s in a box from my move God knows where. I feel badly I haven’t given it to her, even though it’s something I really wanted.
I don’t find teasing or hurting people fun. I never did. I can remember a few times physically fighting with my sister, but it was more like struggling or pushing when we were very little. Mostly, when we were very young, we held hands, and I’d help her, “cook” for her, spin her around in fun, and I wanted to make her happy.