Let’s assume that he likes you. After all, he hired you, right? And aside from that you’re probably personable and friendly (it’s pretty much a requirement for working in retail, after all), and let’s assume that you’re also good-looking.

In that case, assuming all of that to be true – and let’s also assume, just for the heck of it, that he’s also unattached, heterosexual and looking – keep away from him.

Workplace romances, and especially between young people, always wreak havoc in a work environment. Even if he treats you exactly the same as all other employees during working hours, as soon as the word gets out that you two are “an item”, then everyone will assume that you’re getting preferential treatment. And that will make things miserable for you and for him – and for the co-workers who have such a misperception, too.

And even if he does manage to treat you exactly like everyone else, there will be more than a few times – right there at work! – where you’ll feel resentful that he does treat you “just like everyone else”. After all – assuming this scenario – you’re his girlfriend!

So be cool. Be pleasant, friendly and accommodating – as any employee should be with an employer or manager. But be respectful of the employer / employee relationship, too, and maintain a professional distance.

Play it cool! If it turns into something, for Pete’s sake, DON’T RUSH IT! Workplace romances can spell BIG trouble for all concerned! Keep it casual. Keep it professional. This is your job, not a guest appearance on “Love Boat.”

If he’s into, he will make a move. Just wait.

How much do like the job.
Work place fraternization can get you fired.
I would ignore all that stuff.

I have found often times, that when I have the gut feeling someone is interested, they usually are. BUT you need to be careful relying on that because you don’t want to come to the wrong conclusions. So my personal rule of thumb is, if he isn’t asking you out, he isn’t interested. This may not always be the case, but it sure does protect you from false conclusions.

You said he acts nervous around you, does he act nervous around anyone else? Have you caught him glancing over at you? Is he flirty? Does he go out of his way to do nice things for you?

It is hard to say with the little information given, but I would focus on his body language. This would be eye contact, does he copy your gestures? Is he always facing you? Etc. Try invading his personal bubble a bit, does he back off? Does he stay still?

Take my advice lightly, because I am no dating expert. These are just things I’ve noticed throughout my dating life.

Dangerous waters there.