I’m getting to know this guy and I’m really starting to like him. But I have one problem…

I’ve been in 3 relationships ever, and two of them were with very clingy guys. These guys basically gave up friends and hobbies to be with me. Clingyness and neediness are now my biggest turns off.

I’m now scared to date because I’m worried my next boyfriend will be clingy and needy.

Advice?