My husband always forgets to do things that I ask him to do, even in relation to our child. I even ask him to repeat what I said and he does but he still does not do it. It is really driving me nuts and I am either thinking that he has a learning disability or just has no respect for me or a very selfish person. It is really causing tension in our marriage. If I confront him about it he just says he is not a good listener and that I should write it down. This really hurts me. Why does he not write it down if he knows he has a problem? It is driving me nuts. What should I do? I just feel like he is old enough to figure out how to make sure things get done. He is good at his job so why can he not apply the same approach to remembering things to be done at home? I am very hurt and frustrated. I feel disrespected.