My older boyfriend(46),told me(29) that this weekend we were not going to see each other because he was going to go back to the city where he lived before with his ex-wife’s, and that he was going to do some things, like look for a ground (property) to build a house that his mom/him are interested in, and he is also going to visit 2 friends, and was going to go back to his ex Wife’s home to look for some stuff that he still has there,(even though he has his storage over there) so I don’t even know why he still has some of his belongings wandering around in her house. And on top of that he will stay to sleep there.They have been divorced for 6 or more years now.

They have 2 dogs, they live with her and he adores those dogs, I feel as if this can get in the way of him an I,cause whenever she travels, She calls him to go and take care of the dogs all the way where she lives, which is like two hours and a half away from us.Another thing is that this woman is American and he is a Latino, so maybe they got married so he can get his legal papers here in the states, but honestly speaking 10 years is too much for the sake of legal status papers here in the U.S, or maybe they did fall in love,who knows.

Am I overreacting here or is this all too much??. He asked me if I was alright with him sleeping in her house or not, I answered that I trusted him (stupid me,now I feel like a fool).

We have been together for 2 months,he has been a really nice and generous man with me.I don’t want to screw it up, but I don’t want to look like a fool either.

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