Eh? What?
Do you mean you want to a VNC client on your Dell laptop to gain remote access to your Mac Mini? If so, yes, you can indeed do that.
Disclaimer: I haven’t tried the following:
Here’s an idea: the MacBook Air install disks come with software to allow the Air to use the DVD or CD drives of other Macs or PCs on your network (since the Air doesn’t have one built in).
Now, if you can get that same software installed on your Mini (and the remote pieces installed on your PC), then you’d be able to not only control your Mini from your PC, but also load disks on your PC and have your Mini see them. You could then tuck the Mini away up in a closet or otherwise out of sight.