Yes, but for some, these innocent fantasies do and have become a problem.
I wasn’t saying that the majority of people fall under this category. I was realy sayng that one must understand themself, their thoughts, their motives, their fantasies, and practice self-discipline without alloweing those to go too far. More than anything, I was just wanting to focus on the idea that we have need to understand ourselves, and by studying our own habits of masturbation, we may indeed be able to determine whether we are walking upon healthy grounds with it, or whether there is a greater issue that needs to be addressed.
It’s just safe to check up on ourselves, and make sure we are in moderation in all things, even with masturbation. Certain thoughts and habits can slowly progress toward an affair for some individuals. Thus, it is always good to evaluate your thoughts and motives in order that you are not lead into excess.