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What do I do with this woman?

I am 24 years old and I have never had a girlfriend in my life. And it’s not that I’m not interested in women because there are several that I like but I have not managed to have a girlfriend. It’s not that I’m desperate and I do not want to make a big fuss about not having a girlfriend but it seems very strange that I have not had one until now and that I do not know how to safeguard and I’m starting to worry because everybody talks about it and I feel silly and inferior. I have seen that even people younger than me have more experience.

Since about 2 months, I have the feeling that a girl at school is watching me but I’m not sure about it. On one occasion I was sitting on a bench and turned around automatically because I felt a look and I saw her but quickly she turned around so I’m not sure. If she were clearer, more explicitly I could be sure that she really looks at me but since it’s not like that I have my doubts.
This surprises me a lot because she is very pretty and I have never felt that I am attractive in the least.
The last time I saw her was last week. She went to my side but did not turn to see me although it was obvious that she was avoiding eye contact on purpose because she did see me. What do I do? How do you think she interpreted the fact that I did not speak to her(or anything)? . She is really very pretty, and you can see that she is very social because I always see her with friends, very rarely do I see her alone, I do not think she is shy or anything like that, I think she could be with the man she would like . These things make me think that she has a lot of experience in this relationship so she would quickly realize my mistakes and that I do not have experience and that I do not have the slightest idea what to do. And I’m afraid this will make me run away from me (something similar has happened to me already).

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