During my twenties I had several men “admit” to me they fantasized about me, asking if that was okay.
I suppose their confessions were in hopes I would act on that? I always said the same thing.
Just keep it to yourself, I don’t wanna hear details. Don’t fantasize me sloppy, because I am hella good.
Men that old never asked me, but I would say the same.
Actually come to think of it, been asked by at least one woman too.
Thoughts are the property of the person having them.