@MacBean: yeah, I’ve found that often photo sets are better than videos in that they leave enough to my imagination that nothing that’s ridiculous or otherwise a turn-off needs to come up. But they still provide the visual stimulation that I enjoy – i.e. looking at nekkid chicks. :)
Interestingly, I’ve always was I was in the minority on that issue.. certainly the online porn industry moved to video as fast as possible, presumably in response to customer demand. But the number of responses here which mention silliness, stupidity, disgustingness, etc may indicate otherwise.
Who was it who said that there’s only a single step from the sublime to the ridiculous? They were certainly right, at least as far as porn goes. And I guess the line is a little different for everyone..
You mentioned stories. Sometimes I too enjoy an erotic story, but I find that they are actually closer to video in that they can take that step into ridiculousness more easily than photo sets. I think maybe stories leave the wrong part (the visuals) to my imagination; I’d prefer to see skin and fill in the contextual details with my fantasies, not the other way around.
Sorry if that’s getting a bit off-topic from the original question. To maybe bring it back around, I’ll ask this: is looking at photos/video more or less potentially “unfaithful” to one’s partner than reading stories or just daydreaming about a long-cherished personal fantasy?