@canidmajor: Look, if you reflect, that’s just an “enhancement” of this question of mine. If you don’t like something in my answer, doesn’t mean that I’m speaking from my experience (anyway, no one always can). I can safely assume that anyone, at one point or another, has done, said etc. something and then didn’t really mean it because (s)he didn’t know any better. Anyway, for that matter, I’m trying to be the most possibly objective. Every time I forget to say “I think” or I say “most people” doesn’t mean I really mean it. But, especially on the internet, every word counts. The people on the Internet, in general, might like to dig in to weed out the good, the ugly and the bad. And when it sinks, it STINKS. Every person, in general, needs to reinvent him/herself, not to conform him/herself, to ANYTHING, not (forgive me) to law, not to tradition, not (forgive me) to his own experience, and certainly not to the opinion of others. We must soak in anything and everything that suits us, and dump out the rest. We must live according to ourselves, or, believe you me, we’re gonna DESTROY ourselves.