I have two friends that I meet frequently (like once or twice a week) and when I invited them for a beer at night and said I had to be somewhere at 11:30 pm, they were like “well then I’d rather meet another time.” I invited them at 9! Is that now enough time to get beers and talk? This baffled me to be fair. I pointed it out to them and they didnt explain really, just said that they didn’t wanna come all the way(25 min train ride) for just 2.5 hours…

Well how long can you sit in a bar?