Why is it that polyamorous relationships never seem to work? Why can’t we all just be happy and want others to be happy regardless of what that means, especially when it really doesn’t affect us, such as involving significant others or even ex-significant others being with someone else?

That being said, do you think it is possible to get over having a jealous nature and if it is, how would that be possible or what kind of steps would you take to discontinue that feeling?