My friend is getting married and her fiancé works with my husband. The are pals but not close outside of work. We got the save the date and it was only addressed to my husband. I felt like it was rude not to include me on the invitation but I figured I’d wait to see the actual invite. Well the invitation came and it said ”:husbands name: + Guest” I am upset that my friend of many years didn’t think to add MY name to the invitation!

In my understanding, you put +guest if the person is single and you do not know who they are dating…. we are married, we have been together for 15 years how could I be forgotten like this?

We thought about how it could have been her mother or someone doing the invitations and she didn’t know me but the bride and groom put together the list and they had to have thought of us as a unit not as just my husband.

Do you guys agree that this was rude? I’m sure it wasn’t intentional but it is still really rude in my opinion.