Let’s examine the evidence, shall we?
You talk about shades, vampires, mortals and the likes. All phenomena known from various role-playing games. Wrestle insists he’s calling the shots, except when the nymph is around, he listens to her, hence the reporting structure.
My only grievence is the way you apply those to real (RL, if you will) conversations on Fluther where they don’t belong. This isn’t a game site, it’s a useful tool for fact finding, insight gathering and stimulating debate – sure the odd humourous comment adds to the place, but numerous posts about gathering armies, who’s unleashing whom and all that, really is lost on these threads. Save them for appropriate forums, please.