Go girls! As for me, I was engaged at a very young age, and the boy lived with me at my mom’s house (long story). We’d been having a bit of a rough patch, nothing I didn’t think would blow over. He surprised me by picking me up from work one day, and I’m thinking we’ll have a nice dinner, hammer out the problems, etc…when he informs me that he moved out while I was at work. Totally blindsided me. He kept saying it was only temporary, that we’d be back together soon, dragging it out for months. I finally got up the nerve to tell him to go to hell, and moved on with my life. Really, it was the best thing that ever happened to me!