Everytime some one talks about lights down low and candles I think of that scene in Bringing Down the House where Steve Martin thinks he’s hooking up with a fellow lawyer who he met online. He turns the lights down, lights candles, and answers the door holding two glasses of champagne….and the person he’s meeting turns out to be an ex con, Queen Latifa who pretended to be a “skinny white broad” lawyer! He’s speechless. She blows right past him and walks into the house, looks around at the candles and says, “Somebody was planning on gettin’ some boom boom tonight!” and slaps her own ass.
Steve Martin breaks his neck blowing out candles!
I can’t speak for other women, but I, personally, find it extremely annoying when a man makes his real intentions so blatantly obvious.