Yeah, I couldn’t bring myself to tell my husband, because he has specifically said that he doesn’t want me hiring service people…he has friends, etc…. so yes, @sndfreQ, the issue is layered. I have only gotten a few things fixed without him realizing it, and usually he realized it later…but this company he specifically said he didn’t want, after I’d already signed a maintanance contract with them… This was the last service call…. I think that I won’t be bringing this one up to him, because the potential to get really ugly is too big. There was no assault or anything, it was me nattering on about teaching and children and how I love what I do, and this guy has two kids dealing with exactly what I was talking about, when suddenly the guy went octopus on me…and I didn’t even see it coming. I just said I was married and couldn’t do that, but felt really gross and stupid because how stupid could I be? I just felt nasty, and yes, unsafe. I told my father in lieu of my husband, and he said tell my husband. I told a sibling, and this sibling said, “Wow, you really did THAT ONE on personality” and I was like, huh?? And I’m already paranoid as it is, and now I am praying that this guy doesn’t try calling me or ANYTHING because I think I would freak. And my kid was home, and I keep thinking, “Do these guys hit on customers all the time?” Go in, fix the drip in shower, and try to get a leg over? UGH. And you know I will NEVER be doing that sort of stuff behind his back again everything broken is going to STAY BROKEN….Gonna have to nag the shit out of him….. It’s a no win situation. But at least I don’t feel so bad anymore….