I try not to. If I am dwelling on it, I try to write it out or I go to online chat supports that I use if it’s really bad. Or I busy myself with other things. I used to dwell on things so bad I gave myself panic attacks almost every night. Now I have some better coping skills.
@Jonsblond “I think it’s a shame that those who are vocal about hard times are looked down upon. It keeps people who really need help from getting the help they need.”
this is so true and it’s really sad. I’ve had people tell me to “get over it” when I tried to talk and now i just don’t tell that person anything anymore. On one hand it’s okay because you know who you probably shouldn’t trust but on the other hand you just feel worse and more lonely :/. I hate calling those numbers or using the online help-lines but I don’t have much of a choice anymore.