When dating, I do prefer the man be at least my height 5’6” even better would be 5’8” so I can wear a little bit of a heal. When I was younger my heals were higher, so I used to say 5’10” is just perfect. I actually don’t find over 6’ appealing either, so I guess that’s sounding very picky. My husband is 5’10”. My ex was also. My dad was 5’8” I think, he’s shorter now. I don’t think of my dad as short though. My FIL is my height, and I don’t think of him as short either, unless I’m thinking about it for a Q like this.
As far as outside of dating height means absolutely nothing to me, except I will say I don’t like being much taller than other people in the room, whatever room it is. I’m talking about a group of women, I don’t like being 5’9” in heals when the other 4 or 40 women in the room are under 5’4”. I know short women hate feeling short, but it sucks to be towering also. I don’t know if men feel that way.
Part of it is I like to dance. It’s hard to fit together well on the dance floor when a partner is much shorter or much taller.