I suppose what seems like love at first where everyone goes through the infatuation stages it could be actually manipulation to get something from one.
Most times its inexperienced men who want multiple women to teach them in the sexual arena so that they come off as the best lover..some ideal that these types aspire to.
Example:Lawrence Olivier
https://www.biography.com/actor/laurence-olivier
Quote: “He’s like a blank page and he’ll be whatever you want him to be. He’ll wait for you to give him a cue, and then he’ll try to be that sort of person.”
He was quoted as saying to a close friend:
” Women are dispensable,they come by the bus load and when one bus is gone another bus comes comes to replace the first one”
That tidbit was quoted to me several times by the mother of the boyfriend who did that to me and several others. I finally learned how to answer that quote to her..
“Women can wait for the next busload of men as well, it works for both..right?”
She was enabling her adult son with that stupid callous quote to all his girlfriends..making it a competition I assume.
It took three long years of pain and anguish after he left me, to finally see the reality of his behavior . I have better boundaries now because of this relationship, which I suppose was the positive outcome learned.
There are those that cannot settle on one person then their are those that can.
Don’t trust until they earn that trust.
Choose wisely.